Once, just before me and my lovely wife walked away for good in 1997 or so, an a$$hole elder (i could do an entire post on that narcisistic, homophobic POS) said that because I had a college degree ( I had a two year ASEE) that he was'nt intimidated by me. This same mouthbreather also was assigned to sheperd me and my wife and he asked us to study a certain chapter in some book to be reviewd when he came by. Well, my wife and I have always had a reverence for books of all kinds and NEVER marked up our study books (even though we always prepared, usually with written notes on seperate sheets of paper). This clown shows up, sees that we have not marked up our books, announce that it's obvious we weren't prepared and that we were wasting HIS time. We patiently explained our feeling about marking in books but to no avail. He left, saying that we were not instep if we did not mark up our study books.
A long time ago, in '74 or so, I had a 1970 GTO. I was very spiritual back then but also always had a love for muscle or sports cars. Had a pious elder ask me not to park it in the KH parking lot because it was not an appropriate car to have. And amazingly, I did just that. BUT, I outsmarted them, I bought a VW Bug which I drove to meetings and service and kept the Goat.